Sunday, April 20, 2008

Style Exercise as I did....

Notation
In the Spar supermarket, an hour before closing. An ugly old woman of about 80 wearing a hat of pink. People paying. The ugly old woman is not able to wait her time, wants to pay faster. Young woman is standing next to her who is pushed by her, as old ugly woman has not a watch and thinks it’s too late to do it. Ugly old woman succeeds doing the long run, young girl is amazed, not able to say anything.


One week later we meet in the same place, at the Spar supermarket, she’s trying to do the same she did last week, but I win, and she’s advised to buy a new clock.

Surprises
How many people are hungry at 7 o’clock! And how ridiculous that old woman looked, wearing that pink hat in her age! And what was she doing? She wanted to push me to get closer to the cashier and due to this, arrive home and have dinner earlier than me. You can’t imagine how strong and tough an old lady can be when she’s hungry! And what was the reason of pushing me (apart from hunger)? You won’t believe it: she thought that the shop closes at 7.00. Unfortunately she succeeded doing hurrying, as I was just standing without any words.


A week later, guess whom I met at the same place and time! The same lady, the same reason, but this time she was just advised to buy a new watch because it was just 7 o’clock and the shop surprisingly closed at 8.00 like always.


Dream
I can’t remember exactly. It was at night or only after dark I don’t know. But there’s a face in the foreground, sure. It’s a woman and I saw a colour of pink or light red I can’t remember. But I felt a strong push on me. I was so afraid I as I remember. Suddenly everything disappeared but the same face and colour appeared again although my feelings were different. I was confident I had a feeling of victory or something similar. But this time I was not afraid I’m sure.


Precision
In the Spar supermarket on the Ifjúság Street, in a huge building, 1 meter far from the cashier, 10 people were standing at 7.05 p.m. A person of the feminine sex aged 82 years, four months and twenty days, 1m 58cm tall and weighing 43kg and wearing a pink hat 30cm, pushed a woman aged 20 years, four months and fifteen days, 1m 73cm tall, who was just maintained her position and her open mouth state during pushing and was not able to blow an air-stream from her lungs through her vocal folds to create something which is called sounds and combine them to items, called words.


168 hours later in the same place which is huge, the same aged lady was doing the same movement, but the victim of the atrocity who was still 20 years, four months and fifteen days was able to blow an air-stream from her lungs through her vocal folds and created sounds which she combined into words to say: Give money for a new time measuring item: a WATCH!


Hesitation
I don’t really know where it happened….in a church, at school, at the swimming-pool? A bus, perhaps? No, it happened at a supermarket! But which supermarket? It was a supermarket or a small shop? What was there? A queue? Money? I know what I wanted. I wanted to pay. But what for? For how much? I don’t really know in what way. For some eggs? For some milk? I remember. I needed something…food or drink? But why I was standing alone? No..I was not alone. There was somebody there too. A young man…or an old lady? I was wearing a scarf. Or the cashier was wearing a pink hat? I don’t know. Well, I think a woman was standing next to me. But what was she wanted? She wanted to pay too. Yes, I remember, she wanted to push me…but why? I was slow. Or too fast? No, she wanted to be faster. Did I let her?
I think yes, but I’m not sure.


Something similar happened later. A week later? Or after a day? I was standing in the same queue, or not? I remember someone familiar with me. The cashier? No, I remember that old man…or woman? She wanted to push me again because she was in hurry. Or she just wanted to ask me what’s the time? I don’t know, but I said her to buy a new watch….or I gave my watch to her?

Sunday, April 6, 2008

How to find Mr or Mrs Big? II



Well, after going through 2 months, the relationship can turn into 2 ways:
1. Your boy/girlfriend is a kind of man who really wants you to be together and to create common life with you.
2. Your boy/girlfriend is too young or just a childish thinker who cannot imagine sharing life with another person and would like to maintain his/her individual life and being with you is just a good spare time that he/she can enjoy.

If your partner is the first one, I can say that you can have a great possibility to live happily and in this case your personality and also the other's can develope and if you care with the other and learn the simple rules of a relationship you can do your best and your life can be easier.
As for the rules you should know and keep:

1. Respect your partner
2. Be honest with the other ( you can have secrets it's okay, but sharing your personal things of your life makes the other more honest and opened which is good for both of you)
3. Respect and keep your partner's seperateness (try to create an intimate sphere for the other and due to this your seperateness can remain too)
4. Don't be afraid telling your problems
5. Try to accept and tolerate the bad side of the other ( you have to admit that you have a bad side too which your partner have to live together too)
6. Talk talk talk ( Silence does NOT bring peace between you)

These are seemingly simply rules or they're really are, but keeping them is a hard exercise and it needs time to learn them, but with this end in view you ought not to have so many problems.
So, in the other case, when your darling is a childish thinker whose life is just a great play without any consequences and any responsibility your common future looks black.
The good news is that you can have great fun, you can have good experiences (when your aims are the same) however you need more, this boy/girl is not the suitable person for you, so the search (the hunting) continues....

But DO NOT GIVE UP!!! It's the most important thing. It's really true that hope dies last. But it's also true that when you don't think about finding someone and you calm down accepting the fact that you have to live a period of your life alone, it's the time when love arrives!!!

Sunday, March 23, 2008

How to find Mr or Ms Big?



Well, everybody during his growing-up process reach the age to realize, life is more liveable and better, sharing it with an other person. Someone starts to look for the suitable person very young, someone needs more time to get started, but finally everyone finds his/her "other-side" and they live happy ever after. It's the fairy tale version, but what about in real life?

Normally the age 18-19, can be a suitable age to get your life shared with someone and know what does the expression: "I love you" mean.
I don't think a girl even a boy (sorry boys) can understand what does it really mean when you open your heart to the other sex and let somebody to know you, both physically and mentally. So you have the right age, but not yet the suitable man or woman. What to do? How to find the girl who was born to love only you: Who would be your wife? And vice versa. One thing for sure: you have to go among people, you have to visit communities where there's the possibility of any communication.

After stepping over the "hunting-time" let see the case when you're together. In the beginning it can be a bit embarrassing to get to know each other, first of course you want to show your best, but on the other hand you both would like to get closer and closer to each other showing your true side sometimes. The most beautiful thing is the first 2months of relationship, people can have in their lives.

This is the time when you're shy you're just trying to do everything well, it's the "dream-time" when you imagine living with that man forever, getting old and having at least eleven children creating a football team, walking and speaking a lot, planning ( of course it's hidden from the other) and during this time it's revealed whether you suit or not.
After 2 months you can get a picture of the other's personality but it's of course not the guarantee of staying in the same state forever. We can't close off the fact that we're continuously changing even if you have to conform to someone else...

Friday, February 29, 2008

If you don't mind I share some more videos with you!

Coloured is better...

If you don't mind here it is a new video I hope you'll like it!
I wish that everything would be as easy as this!:D

Thursday, February 28, 2008

Finding you the perfect girl...



Nowadays it's getting harder and harder finding a suitable partner. The expectations are more and more bigger and as everything, the way of conquest changed too. This video is a good example for how to attrect attention if you're not so obtrusive and to prove the fact that beauty is not always enough!

fate...

It must be just fate, nothing else...
As till I was in Pécs in the dormitory I had no problems with my health. I mean I felt good, the sun was shining and I was so grateful because I could fortunately avoid every kind of flu in the last few weeks.

But here comes the juncture as I spoke too soon, yesterday when I arrived home everything turned out that had been hidden inside of me, a great portion of snuffles unfortunately that effected some intermission in my audition and of course small shops could enrich of me buying dozens of hankies but there's some good in everything bad, it's so funny as I can frighten everyone with my well-timed "special kind" sneeze.