Sunday, March 23, 2008

How to find Mr or Ms Big?



Well, everybody during his growing-up process reach the age to realize, life is more liveable and better, sharing it with an other person. Someone starts to look for the suitable person very young, someone needs more time to get started, but finally everyone finds his/her "other-side" and they live happy ever after. It's the fairy tale version, but what about in real life?

Normally the age 18-19, can be a suitable age to get your life shared with someone and know what does the expression: "I love you" mean.
I don't think a girl even a boy (sorry boys) can understand what does it really mean when you open your heart to the other sex and let somebody to know you, both physically and mentally. So you have the right age, but not yet the suitable man or woman. What to do? How to find the girl who was born to love only you: Who would be your wife? And vice versa. One thing for sure: you have to go among people, you have to visit communities where there's the possibility of any communication.

After stepping over the "hunting-time" let see the case when you're together. In the beginning it can be a bit embarrassing to get to know each other, first of course you want to show your best, but on the other hand you both would like to get closer and closer to each other showing your true side sometimes. The most beautiful thing is the first 2months of relationship, people can have in their lives.

This is the time when you're shy you're just trying to do everything well, it's the "dream-time" when you imagine living with that man forever, getting old and having at least eleven children creating a football team, walking and speaking a lot, planning ( of course it's hidden from the other) and during this time it's revealed whether you suit or not.
After 2 months you can get a picture of the other's personality but it's of course not the guarantee of staying in the same state forever. We can't close off the fact that we're continuously changing even if you have to conform to someone else...